Your Guide to Hosting Friendsgiving

There are now TWO occasions to eat pumpkin pie and turkey; why not take advantage of it? Friendsgiving is a newfound tradition that gives everyone an excuse to get together with the ones they love, with either a small gathering with housemates or a party on Zoom. Planning your Friendsgiving is essential: the food, drinks and decorations should be prepared beforehand to avoid any stress. Follow along with these thoughts on hosting a successful Friendsgiving.


Schedule & Send Invites

Before you get to the fun festivities of the event, it is important to pick a date and let your guests know early! The holidays can be a very busy time, so make sure you get your invite out there to spread the word. You can make formal invitations to mail out, or if you want to be in-tune with our digital world today, send an evite!

Plan A Potluck

As the host, remember to not overwhelm yourself too much with the menu. The easiest way to have a successful dinner, is to make it a potluck! Start a sign-up sheet or Google Doc to ensure a variety of dishes at your Friendsgiving. Think about appetizers, the main course, sides, and desserts. Potlucks highlight what each guest makes well, and also enjoys!

Stock Up On The Essentials

In the scramble of making sure everything is in order, some details can slip through the cracks. This is your reminder to get plates, napkins, silverware, and cups for your guests! While setting the table, think about decorations, as well. You can buy banners, balloons and centerpieces online, or make your own!

Start New Traditions

Friendsgiving is a time to show appreciation for the time you get to spend together. Since Friendsgiving is a newfound holiday, now is a great time to start new traditions! One idea of a thoughtful custom is to write a letter to another guest about everything you’re thankful for about them. The host collects the letters, and passes them out at the next Friendsgiving. Not only does this give everyone the opportunity to who gratitude for one another, but it’s something to look forward to next year!

Be Flexible

The holidays can be a trying time for lots of people. Remember to make everyone feel included and loved during this season. Whether that means moving a date or time, or making Friendsgiving virtual, listen to your friends’ needs and concerns.


Remember that there are no rules to hosting Friendsgiving; if anything, this is a great excuse to get together with each other and be thankful! What are you waiting for? Get your invites out, fill your plates, and have a great Friendsgiving!

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